I used to hate Christmas, but something changed

I was in first grade when someone told me Santa wasn’t real. I refused to believe them. For the next year, I held on to my desire for Santa – this old magical man driven by reindeer with a sleigh full of toys – to be real. He had to be. I wanted him to …

Dealing with judgement from others

And how to be more aware of your own judgement patterns According to an article in Psychology Today, judging others is a form of ranking things around us that asserts our superiority. It typically takes the form of putting others down. It’s what people who think they’re “somebodies” do to people they take for nobodies. …

How a dream helped me heal

It was a lazy weekday evening – two days before Thanksgiving- when I realized a person who I thought was in a close friend had completely cut me out of their lives. Both her and her husband decided to completely unfriend me and every single person associated with me. My husband, our family, and all …

When to let go of relationships

I want to start this blog out by saying that there’s always two sides to every story. Maybe even three. However, at the end of the day, if any relationship is negative or no longer serves your personal joy, then its time to let go and walk away. Of course, we all know that’s easier …